Talk That Talk to Me

While dirty talk can be an easy way to get aroused, doing it wrong can bring your libido down faster than Freefall at Six Flags. Some men really enjoy it and some women have yet to master it.  So, here are my tips for the girls who haven’t found their inner bad girl yet! If this is new to you, start by sexting. It’s so much easier to write down how you’re feeling instead of actually saying it. Start off with that during the day, so by the time they see you that night, they’re ready to explode. You can start off with something as simple as “I’ve been thinking about you all day,” or “The sex was so good last time.” Both of these will snowball into something grand.

When you’re in the session, just describe what’s happening. Make him feel like man. “It feels so good when you blah, blah, blah.”  You don’t have to talk the whole time. Just enough to get both of you hot and bothered. Something simple like, “Put it in,” or “harder,” “deeper,” can put him in frenzy and satisfy your dirty talk quota. Try to look each other in the eye when you tell the other person how much you enjoy them. Tell her, “You’re so beautiful,” and mean it! You can tell him, “I love to watch it go in and out.” Recite some of those steamy text messages. If cursing isn’t off limits, then you can really have some fun. If he’s too vulgar say, “Babe, I don’t like that word, but I love when you said XYZ. Say that again.” Don’t worry if it sounds corny. All you need is confidence to pull this off. Be brave. So let’s talk…how easy (or hard) is it to talk dirty to your lover?