Sex on the brain

Chocolate, sex, money, and love are just a few things that come to mind when I think about addiction.  We are all afflicted with an addiction.  Are you real enough to accept yours? Or, are you in denial?  An addiction, defined in Webster’s dictionary is, “a continued use of a substance, or behavior despite adverse consequences.”  Today, there are many people who claim sex as their addiction.  The question is how far are you willing to go to get it?  Sleep with a crack head?  Risk getting HIV/AIDS?  It leaves me to wonder is it truly an addiction or an excuse to have free range?

The first couple that comes to mind is Eric Benet and Halle Berry, any man or woman’s dream.  Shoot, I figure if it can happen to Halle it can happen to anyone.  Everyone thought Eric was the stupidest man in the world.  Damn, if Halle can get cheated on, then nobody is exempt!  Yet, somehow people started looking at Halle sideways wondering what is she doing wrong in bed?  Is she stingy, or does her breath stink?  Or did he use it as an excuse?  Now, he has moved on and has another bad chick on his arm.  Maybe, he used the relationship to raise his status quo.  Leaves me to wonder….. is he cured now? Smh…

What about Jada and Will Smith?  It is rumored that they enjoy having sex so much they have worked out an “arrangement”.  It seems to work for them, so maybe it is possible to make it work.  Some feel as though it can make a relationship stronger.  For me, more ingredients to the pot may add flavor, but it can spoil it too.

Did we forget about the Tiger Woods scandal?  All them chicks started coming out the woodwork like roaches.....Then he started losing, bad!  Did he lose his mojo?

Addictions are real, and should be taken very seriously. Whether it is you, or your partner consider getting help.  Many addictions have an underlying cause and should be treated by a professional.   Would you date someone who says they are a sex addict?