Finding the Fire and Desire

For those of us who have been in marriages or long term relationships, we often wonder, where did the fire go? Maybe we're too busy with work or busy wrestling the kids to sleep, but sex sometimes just becomes another chore on the to-do list. So what do we do to get out of the sex rut?


Even if it's just once a month, do something, as a couple that is outside of your normal sex session. How about trying an adult paint box? Paint each other using edible body paint. Of course sex toys are always fun. Maybe some role playing will spice things up in the bedroom. She's the patient and you're her horny gynecologist, checking to make sure that it's all good down there. How about making a video; your very own porno and then have more fun watching it together! How about installing a pole in the bedroom? If you take a sexy pole dancing class or two and you can pull it off, he'll be impressed and horny! Maybe it's something as simple as meeting your man at the door with some hot new lingerie on (don't forget the stilettos.) You have on your new crotchless body stocking and you serve him dinner and let him have you for dessert-with your body stocking or new lingerie still on! Whoa! You can let him take it off for round two. The point is, there is no excuse for boring sex. If you had exciting sex once upon a time, you can have it again. If you have ideas for spicing things up in the bedroom, send us an email at Stilettogirls@inbox.com or leave us a comment.