Time waits for no one.....

Finding that special someone most would agree, is not an easy task. Especially now that we live in a world which includes face book, twitter, instagrams, and let's not talk about cell phones.  Remember when we had to memorize a number?  Or, actually wait for someone to call you back? Can you remember a time when you felt that electricity run through your entire body?   For me, it’s all in a kiss, it can turn me all the way off or all the way on!  Bottom line, when the chemistry is there it is most definitely undeniable.  From there, the energy can go one of three ways, a dead end, a jump off, or embark on a long and steamy relationship.  When you meet someone and that vibe is there things can move faster than posting a new status!

Which brings me to the question, how soon is too soon to bang someone’s head off?  In high school I might believe that a person should wait say three months, or at least until your wedding night!  Shoot, as you get older and sex gets better (it really does), you may rethink that rule.  Three months is a long time to wait to find out if that “thang” is going to make the cut.  Let’s face it not everyone can make the cut!

Why wait to see if it’s actually worth the wait?  Seriously, is having sex during the first date or so such a terrible idea?   Look, if it’s a ride you want to try again, you will know right away.  If not, you can cut your losses and move on. Granted, we all know practicing safe sex is ALWAYS in order.

To me, getting a sample of the goods seems like the only way to go. Why tip toe around the obvious?     Who has time to wait around and HOPE he/she is good in bed?   Which is better, going with the flow and see where things go naturally? Or, going old school and making your prospect wait it out?