Try a Little Tenderness

Dear Stiletto Girls,

I’m in my mid thirties and me and my husband have 3 kids. After six years of marriage, I’m completely bored in the bedroom. It used to be great! What can I do to spice things up?

If you’re bored in the bedroom then get out of the bedroom. No one says that’s where you have to make love. Take it outside (weather permitting.)  As long as you’re not in danger of getting a summons or something, I say go for it. However, the bedroom can still be as equally exciting, if YOU make it. Try new positions, toys, role playing, etc. When was the last time you had a babysitter take the kids and you two had a candlelight dinner at home with soft music playing and then enjoyed each other for dessert? You are the only one who can pull you out of the sexual rut. It’s not hard to change it up if you try.

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