Are You Ready to Learn?

So Brian McKnight wants to teach us about our pussies...hmmm. Please view the video before proceeding, but be careful. The lyrics are NSFW.

So is Brian McKnight on to something? Ladies, did you NOT know that “your pussy can squirt?” Does it really make a difference in the intensity of your orgasm or is it good for nothing more than making a mess and making your partner feel like Super Man? And yes! Most men (and women) will be incredibly turned on if they can make you squirt. It’s erotic and not incredibly hard to do. There’s a big debate in the medical field about female ejaculation (also known as squirting or gushing.) There are several myths surrounding the topic, but according to Lisa S. Lawless, R.M. Psychotherapist, ALL women are capable of it! It’s not something reserved for “special” sex kittens. So first thing you need to know is the fluid is NOT urine. It’s a clear liquid, similar to water and is typically odorless. For all the medical stats on the fluid, do some research on the internet. I want to talk about how to do it. First things first, many women feel like they have to pee when they’re ready to squirt so they hold back. You can release this fear by simply emptying your bladder before your sex session. The easiest way to do it is by G-spot stimulation. So here are some tips. After plenty of foreplay, get lubed up with a water based lube. Some oils are also good. Grape seed oil is great and it feels natural, but it is not condom safe, so choose the lube if you’re using condoms afterward. Insert your index finger about two knuckles deep and rub on the ridges on the front wall of her vagina. Use your index finger and do a “come here” motion with your finger. Pull on this spot slowing and firmly. This is her G-spot. It will feel like a ridged, walnut sized bump when it swells, which it will do once she’s aroused. More than rubbing it, you have to pull it. (This was news to me.) Eventually, you will have the urge to pee. Instead of holding back, bear down and let it go. Your orgasm should be mind blowing. Once you get used to doing it, you should be able to do it during intercourse as well. Practice, practice, practice is the key. So there you have it. Now Brian McKnight can’t teach you anything about your pussy that you don’t already know.