Me and my man have been together for seven years and in an effort to spice up our sex life, he wants us to try having anal sex. I'm so afraid. I heard it hurts at first.
Miss New Booty
Dear Miss New Booty,
Didn't vaginal sex hurt at first, but it feels good now, right? Anal sex, even though still very much taboo, can be enjoyable if you are relaxed and lubed up well. I recommend trying it while the two of you are alone, either at home or in a hotel room. Maybe have a glass of wine or two and go slow! After you are all lubed up, try lying on your side, as a starting position. Next, you back up on to him, instead of him ramming into you. The key is to remain relaxed. The most important tip I can give you is NEVER go from anal sex to vaginal sex without having your partner clean up first. To reduce infection, use a condom even though you've been together forever. A penis may be too large to start with. Try a finger first, then two. You can even try anal beads or a butt plug to get you ready for anal play. You can try it and if you don't like it, you never have to do it again. I'm sure he loves you enough to respect that.
Stiletto Girls
3 comments:
I'm curious about anal sex but I'm scared tooooo.
My husband and I love it.
Great advice! if you don't like it don't do it again.
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