My Hands are Tied...

I must admit that I don't know a lot about S and M relationships. The idea of being whipped, tied, blindfolded or gagged hasn't really appealed to me, so it's never happened. It's about control and having to give all of the control to the person who isn't tied up. I can be quite the control freak so, the idea of being tided up to me, is about as sexy as a straight man in stilettos! But, ever since I've started reading this book, Fifty Shades of Grey by E L James, I think being blindfolded and tied could be kind of sexy! The book is about a very successful, young, CEO who meets an innocent young woman and he pretty much turns her out because this is the stuff that he's into. I thought the book was great and it gave me some good ideas about trying new things. I mean, this could be something cool to try, if you're tired of the same ole, same ole. So, I ask you...is being tied up, blindfolded and totally dominated sexy or scary?