Three's a Crowd

I think every man wants one. Some are even lucky enough to get it, but what does a threesome really say about your relationship? When is it acceptable to participate in this taboo act? When you're married? When you're single? With your jump off or with your long time lover?

I have heard some real horror stories regarding the infamous ménage a trios. While it seems adventurous and exciting, it can really ruin a relationship. What happens if your man (or you for that matter) decides to see the other person without your partner? Well, you've pretty much given them consent to sleep with this person, so whether you're there or not, it could still go down. What about if your man gets the other woman pregnant? Or either one of you decide you'd rather be in a relationship with that person! Emotionally, it seems that this situation can do more harm than good. Freaky is good, but when is too freaky, too much? On the other hand, can a ménage a trios improve your sex life? Maybe you and your other half need a little spice in your life and everything is completely normal afterwards. Maybe you're single and have no strings attached, so I say, be safe and go for it. So, good or bad? Ménage a trios or ménage a NOT?

I'm curious about people's experience with this topic so please let me know your story, if you have one. Stilettogirls@inbox.com or leave a comment.