Wanna Play?

Spicing things up in the bedroom is very similar to cooking. Sprinkle a vibrator there, a pinch of a nipple clamp here, and a half cup of lube can turn your sexcapade into a job well done!  For some, this is untouched territory, if so too bad for you. Whether you use it alone or with your partner, you're in for a great experience.

In my research, I found that women are more willing than man to use sex toys. It seems that for a woman having sex with another woman, it's a necessity!  Most woman would agree getting that orgasm includes some penetration.  For men with other men, one is usually the receiver and the other the giver. Whether you're giving or receiving, sex toys can really enhance your orgasm.  There are dildos, strap ons, anal beads, rings, enhancers, and games. The list goes on and on.  So, with the many different toys to choose from where do you begin?

First off, I would recommend watching a few sex movies. This is only for the open minded!  Some great ideas can be conceived from watching others play. I'm always thinking, does that chick really feel that good?  I need to know!  Next, start off small, a vibrator, edible panties can all do the trick.  Sex toys are an investment, if your on a budget choose wisely.  Also, if your shopping in a sex store talk to one of the workers. Don't be scared; they have heard it all!!  Finally, be open minded, these toys are designed to provide pleasure so enjoy.

If your partner is a little apprehensive, make sure you're comfortable with your choice. Trust me, having confidence, it's what turns you on! So go for it!  Oh and please don't forget the water soluble lube!

So, are sex toys during a session a must? Or can you do without it?  What's your absolute fav?