Thanks for taking the time to read my email. My fiance and I are getting married in a few weeks and his bachelor party is right around the corner. His best man, who is our friend from college is a notorious male hoe. I know there will be strippers there and all types of unsavory characters. I trust my man, but I don't trust him, you know what I'm saying? Should I put my foot down about there not being any strippers at his party?
Jessica Rabbit
Dear Miss Rabbit,
So, first off you have a right to be jealous, especially if your man gave you a reason in the past not to trust him, but if he hasn't, I think you're trippin' over nothing. I don't think putting your foot down about the strippers is going to help. It might turn into a big fight about trust and if you want to take that on prior to your wedding-go right ahead. Have a talk with the groom....not an argument. Just ask him questions about his plans and expectations for that night and read his reactions. I'm sure you know him well enough to see when he's BSing you. You're marrying him, so you have no choice but to trust him. If he'll cheat at the bachelor party, he'll after the honeymoon as well. I wouldn't make a big deal out of it. If you knows he's a cheater, you have bigger problems than the bachelor party. If worse comes to worse you can always figure out a way to crash the party (Please don't do that.) Good luck!
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