Stiletto girls,
Me and my man have been
together for a little over a year. I know he loves me and wants to marry me, which is the good news. He’s currently
separated from his wife, soon to be ex wife, but when I ask him about when he
plans on divorcing her, he seems so casual about it. I really want him to be
divorced before we move any further. What should I do?
Toya
Dear Toya,
I think he HAS to be divorced
before you can move any further. I mean, the two of you can live together, buy
property together etc., but just know that if anything ever happens to him,
that house belongs to you and her. She will get whatever benefits he receives
in the event of something tragic happening. That aside, just know that he can
NEVER legally marry you while he’s still married to her. I know divorces are
expensive and a hassle, especially if she’s not trying to divorce him, but he
needs to bite the bullet and sign the papers. You may have to put your foot
down about it because you’ll never completely have him if he’s still married to
her.
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